We cannot be right with God until we are right with one another.
The power of reconciliation is stronger than revenge. It is amazing how forgiveness unloads the weapon in the other person's hand.
When you reconcile with your brother or sister, it is amazing what it does in both hearts. It is like having your nervous system flushed out. It is like getting over a long-standing fever and cleansing the corruption that has been diseasing your mind.
You don't need an attorney for that. You probably don't need a minister or a counsellor, either. You just need humility. To put it straight, in the final analysis you need guts.
Don't wait any longer.
Keep it simple—go and make it right.
Excerpted from Charles R. Swindoll, Wisdom for the Way (Nashville: J. Countryman, a division of Thomas Nelson, Inc., 2001). Copyright © 2001 by Charles R. Swindoll, Inc. All rights reserved. Used by permission.